You're asking yourself, where the heck did THAT word come from, and what exactly IS a TOPmissive? It's a very good question.

A TOPmissive is a submissive or slave who is acting as a TOP or dominant in the context of a specific situation or scene. It is NOT a permanent role or condition.

It is slightly different from the role of a "service top" who could be seen to be acting as the "top" under the direction of the bottom or submissive. A TOPmissive takes on the role of top but does so without specific direction or instruction from the bottom.

i like to think of being a TOPmissive as "dancing with another submissive."

cindi zyre
Professional BDSM/Fetish Model & TOPmissive